There’s a reason why I’ve not been blogging for weeks now – it’s because I’ll only post when I really have something valuable to share and will not blog for the sake of blogging.
Do you get upset whenever a misfortune happened to you or you’ve missed an opportunity? I know I do.
7 months ago, I was given an opportunity to speak at a seminar that was held a few weeks ago. But at the end, I did not get the speaking engagement contract because something happened that time- somehow, there’s a miscommunication and they thought I wasn’t coming to speak anymore.
Needless to say, I was upset when I found that they thought I’m not coming and already substitute my spot with another speaker. Other than the fact that I enjoy speaking on stage, it’s a major lost of income because I can easily bring home 5-figure income for speaking in a 3-day seminar.
**BUT**… we don’t know the future. I ASSUMED this is a bad thing that happened.
Whatever happen in your life, NO MATTER how bad it looks like, it’s never always a misfortune.
That’s why, there’s this saying, “Everything happens for a good reason, for your benefit.”
That time, 7 months ago, I wouldn’t know that my wife will be pregnant now. If I would have gotten the contract, I would need to cancel it now and create so much inconvenience for everyone. Secondly, no one can predict that the recession will hit us now and affect the seminar.
On top of that, I ended up having more time to look into other business opportunities- which resulted me to make a niche 5-figure income recently.
What I lost 7 months ago has actually become a blessing in disguise.
You see, the Universe has its own funny ways to ‘prevent’ you from the real misfortunes – what you’re experiencing, good or bad, is always a GOOD THING. It’s really how you want to interpret it and you simply cannot judge whatever occurrence you don’t like that’s happening right now will pave your future negatively. That is untrue.
I know it’s hard to think positively. That’s why, I’m not suggesting you to think positive but to think differently. If something bad happens to you, it means something bad happens to you. Don’t start your positive thinking process that nothing bad has just happened. That would MESS UP your mind big time. But think it this way, “Okay, this is bad. But what is the good side of this?”
It’s about accepting reality and seeing beyond the negative effect.
Today is Thanksgiving Day in US and I like to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving Day if you’re celebrating it.
The best way to overcome misfortunes is none other than being gratitude of what you have. When you realize how ‘lucky’ you are– the tangible and intangible possessions that you have, you would understand that everything happens for a good reason clearly.
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You “Chan” Do It!
Patric Chan
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