On 27th January 2008, I got married.

The reason why I posted this is simply because I believe happiness should be shared—this is a very special day for me which is full of happiness. This is the day when two become one and I’ve found the person who I want to live with for the rest of my life.

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Just Married…

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Here Comes The Bride And Me For Wedding Dinner!

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Anyone for a glass of champagne?

I know that I normally write about success and self improvement on this blog. But maybe, love is in the air and I’m feeling happy today.

When someone decides to get married, he’s certain. He knows his taking the right decision that will change his life for better. I believe that certainty does plays a role in making sure the relationship will grow in years to come.

When I think of this, if someone’s pursuing success can have this same certainty, wouldn’t it propel him to achieve success?

I believe– another value that influences someone’s path to success is his certainty of himself. Or herself. I’m just using the word ‘himself’ for the purpose of description, not in any sense of being selective of gender.

If you know what you’ll ultimately obtain for pursuing your goal, I believe that you cannot fail. You’ll be ‘beaten’ over and over again but you’ll stand up stronger, bolder. Because you know-you’re CERTAIN — you’re going to achieve success and it’s worth every blow to take.

And on a totally unrelated tip for those who’s already married- I’m sure there are times that you quarrel. It’s unavoidable, they say it’s part of a healthy marriage. icon smile When Two Become One Each time that happens, just think of the day that you hold his/her hand walking down the aisle and live that moment of happiness in your mind- you’ll smile and be so happy to have your life partner, regardless of how angry you are in your meaningless quarrel.

If you like what you read or value you’ve gotten, please leave a Comment. Or you simply like to pass any good wishes for the marriage. icon smile When Two Become One I’ll definitely appreciate it very much because I read every single Comment posted here personally.

You “Chan” Do It!

Patric Chan
Founder, You Chan Do It
Success Outcome System
www.ycdisuccessoutcome.com

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Comments

142 Responses to “When Two Become One”

  1. William March 17, 2008 at 5:16 am #

    Congratulations and Good Luck to you and Emily. May you have long and happy lives. The post was a gift as are they all.

  2. Brian Potter March 17, 2008 at 5:45 am #

    Congratulations & Jubilations!!!!
    May all your problems be just little ones.
    One male, One female, of course!

  3. Daniel March 17, 2008 at 5:51 am #

    Hi Patric

    Congratulations. I wish you and your wife all the best, a very happy, healthy and successful life.

    Greetings from Switzerland
    Daniel

  4. John March 17, 2008 at 6:15 am #

    Congratulations Chan. Wish you and your lovely bride a happy life together, as you continue inspiring entrepreneurs!

  5. allan mumm March 17, 2008 at 6:37 am #

    congratulations patric and emily all the very best allan mumm from usa

  6. digitalfilmvillage.com March 17, 2008 at 7:07 am #

    Hi Patric,

    Congratulations! Your wife seems to be very happy and thanks for sharing your happiness with us.

    Sojean
    digitalfilmvillage.com

  7. Holly March 17, 2008 at 7:10 am #

    Congratulations. From someone lucky enough to have found my own wonderful husband (thirteen years now), I\’ll note that challenging times are easier when shared. And I wish you both all happiness, wonderful adventures, and a lifetime filled with every blessing.

  8. Lovemore Dumba March 17, 2008 at 7:20 am #

    I wish you as you get into this life long contract with your wife. I hope she will help you to help us more

  9. Sergio L. March 17, 2008 at 7:25 am #

    Hi Patric,

    Congratulations!! Emily looks lovely and is very beautiful. I wish both of you an everlasting love and happiness for the rest of your lives.

    Thanks for sharing this beautiful experience.

    Saludos desde Mexico!!
    Sergio L.

  10. JoshG March 17, 2008 at 7:59 am #

    Gong Hei…Gong Hei….

    Congratulations to Mr & Mrs Chan! Wishing you the best of health and love forever!

  11. Andrea March 17, 2008 at 10:21 am #

    Congratulations and ALL the Best Always!

  12. valentina March 17, 2008 at 10:31 am #

    What a gorgeous couple you make!
    Wishing the two of you an enormously happy
    life together.

  13. melody March 17, 2008 at 11:40 am #

    Congratulations and best wishes to you and
    your bride….her dress was very beautiful!

  14. Alexander Teo March 17, 2008 at 12:34 pm #

    Congratulations, Patric!
    Enjoy your new life, my friend – you two live happily everafter!
    God bless,
    Alexander

  15. shravan March 17, 2008 at 1:18 pm #

    Hey Patric,
    Firstly wish u happy married life,
    u r doin a gr8 job astonished to c so many comments to u,this is a very gr8 response shows that pple are accepting wht ur defining this is very good sign and hope this continues with ur wordsof wisdom to all of us.I wish you and your bride all of the best, and I appreciated the lovely pictures you shared with us
    keep on and on,ur absolotely righ tht happiness increases by sharing the same
    once again congrats ,nice to read ur articles
    thanks,
    Shravan

  16. Nancy Boyd March 17, 2008 at 3:43 pm #

    Patrick, may the song your two hearts sing together on your wedding day be the music that leads both your lives into the future, always with joy.

    Many blessings to you and your bride on your marriage and always!

    Nancy

  17. coach kwang March 17, 2008 at 9:01 pm #

    good wishes for the marriage…
    Very nice looking….
    I:ll fight you for her! LOL
    marry for over 30 years…
    It’s great to find that specila someone…..
    good luck and have a great future,,,,

  18. Patie Tan March 17, 2008 at 10:16 pm #

    Congratulations to Mr & Mrs Patric Chan,

    Wow! what beautiful wedding pictures.It looks magical and Emily and you look stunning.

    May God Bless you both with abundant joy,love and peace always

    Warmest Regards,

    Patie

  19. Desmond March 18, 2008 at 12:53 am #

    Congratulations to you Patric and Emily on your marriage.

    Your wedding photos look beautiful. Wishing you both the best of luck in the future and may you grow together in building a strong life hand in hand.

    Patric, you are an inspiration to us all with what you do to help people in their lives and may you remain strong and committed to your work.

    God Bless.

    From Des in Perth, Australia.

  20. Bernard Tan Min Chun March 18, 2008 at 3:24 am #

    Hi Patric,
    A huge Congratulation for you!

    I wish you all the BEST!

    From, TanMinChun.com

  21. Michael Bolduc March 18, 2008 at 4:31 am #

    Hi Patric, your wife looks really HOT. Lucky man!!!

  22. Dax Cheng March 18, 2008 at 4:55 am #

    Hi Patric,

    Congratulations to the both of you.

    Yammmmmmmmmmmm Seng!!!

    Best Regards
    Dax Cheng
    KL

  23. Farrokh Maneckshaw March 18, 2008 at 5:01 am #

    Wish you both every happiness and thank God for people like you who contribute to the positive

  24. Lam March 18, 2008 at 5:14 am #

    Hi Patric,

    Congrats!

    Welcome to the world of marriage.

    It is a wonderful world.

    You will definitely love it.

  25. Karen March 18, 2008 at 11:08 am #

    Congratulations. I wish you both every happiness for your future together.

  26. Dorothy Ross March 18, 2008 at 5:01 pm #

    Congratulations on your marriage! Here is my secret to a long and happy marriage: Every day, no matter how you feel, commit to the well being of your partner. Then you will do the right thing for both of you and your relationship. God bless you both.

  27. Hasib March 18, 2008 at 7:45 pm #

    Hello Patric!
    A big congratulations from me for taking your life one step further.

    Wishing you both: -happiness, wealth, good health and be blessed with good kids.

    Even after being a husband, please don’t stop giving tips and advices about IM, okay? Promise? LOL!

    Regards,
    Hasib, UKM Bangi.

  28. Ruth Coetzee March 19, 2008 at 6:41 am #

    Congratulations Patric and your other Half – you both looked stunning !! I wish you only joy, success and Peace in the coming years and may spend all of them together !

  29. Prakash March 20, 2008 at 3:17 am #

    Hi Patric,

    Very very congratulations to you both.
    Thanks for this inspiring and lovely message.

    Prakash

  30. Gordon Walker March 20, 2008 at 5:44 am #

    Dear Patric,
    Thank you for sharing your happiness with us. You and your lovely bride Emily look very happy together :-)
    May you both enjoy many Happy, Loving and Growing years together in your marriage.

    God Bless You Both!
    Regards,
    Gordon Walker :-)

  31. wanwma March 20, 2008 at 9:53 pm #

    woo hohoho…congratulations!!!

  32. admin March 22, 2008 at 7:50 am #

    Hi All,

    Thank you for sharing our happiness. We’re very happy to see so many friends from all around the world. :-)

    Warm regards,

    Patric & Emily

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  33. Taek Sung Kwon March 25, 2008 at 5:50 pm #

    Hi Patric!
    Congratulation on your happy wedding
    Great to hear that you are williig to share your happiness with us.

    I also want to share my vision with you.

    Share your WISH(Wisdom, Information, Success and Happiness).

    Always thank you for your nice information and instruction.

    I hope we will meet each other soon.

  34. Zamri Nanyan March 30, 2008 at 10:36 am #

    Congratulations, Patric and Emily!

    You definitely deserve each other. It\’s like perfect match made in heaven. :)

    And, I\’m happy for the both of you…

    Zamri Nanyan

  35. jackie April 2, 2008 at 9:02 am #

    wedding photos are lovely thank you for sharing, all the best for the future.

    Love jackie

  36. Hank April 3, 2008 at 11:36 am #

    A belated Congratulations to you and your lovely wife.

    May you have a happy, healthy, prosperous life together.

    Hank

  37. Gordon Bell April 3, 2008 at 12:27 pm #

    I am very happy for you and relate to your message because (and I assume that your bride is Chinese) I was exceptionally fortunate to meet and soon after marry a Chinese lady. I know what I am about to say is a generalization and not everyone is the same.

    However, there seems to be some wonderful aspects of the Chinese culture that help make for the certainty of which you speak. My wife told me when we first discussed marriage, she said it involves the F word and not the one you think. She said Forever. And you know that has meant a lot to me.

    Because then an argument can be genuine and you know that it will resolve in a peaceful ending. So, reading your words and seeing your lovely pictures are a boost that I have enjoyed for it has brought the same feelings to mind.

    I know that you will forever be in love…

  38. Sush April 4, 2008 at 4:03 am #

    Hi

    Thanks for the wonderful message. Wishing you both a very very happy mariied life…

    warm rgds
    sush

  39. Eiric Bachtiar August 2, 2008 at 6:26 am #

    Hai patric,
    Good job&nice wedding ^^

    My Regards,

    Eiric Bachtiar

  40. kelly chan October 12, 2008 at 11:17 pm #

    congratulations. i am happy for you :)

  41. Henri March 2, 2009 at 9:29 am #

    Congratulations, Patric!

    As I said earlier today, short words may sometimes be teh best words..

    So, yet more congratulations and happy springtime!

  42. King Ky November 7, 2009 at 10:24 am #

    your words have brought me back to a place I\’v strayed so far from.. thanx. keep her happy and get to working on them kids. ,) one

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