On 27th January 2008, I got married.

The reason why I posted this is simply because I believe happiness should be shared—this is a very special day for me which is full of happiness. This is the day when two become one and I’ve found the person who I want to live with for the rest of my life.

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Just Married…

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Here Comes The Bride And Me For Wedding Dinner!

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Anyone for a glass of champagne?

I know that I normally write about success and self improvement on this blog. But maybe, love is in the air and I’m feeling happy today.

When someone decides to get married, he’s certain. He knows his taking the right decision that will change his life for better. I believe that certainty does plays a role in making sure the relationship will grow in years to come.

When I think of this, if someone’s pursuing success can have this same certainty, wouldn’t it propel him to achieve success?

I believe– another value that influences someone’s path to success is his certainty of himself. Or herself. I’m just using the word ‘himself’ for the purpose of description, not in any sense of being selective of gender.

If you know what you’ll ultimately obtain for pursuing your goal, I believe that you cannot fail. You’ll be ‘beaten’ over and over again but you’ll stand up stronger, bolder. Because you know-you’re CERTAIN — you’re going to achieve success and it’s worth every blow to take.

And on a totally unrelated tip for those who’s already married- I’m sure there are times that you quarrel. It’s unavoidable, they say it’s part of a healthy marriage. icon smile When Two Become One Each time that happens, just think of the day that you hold his/her hand walking down the aisle and live that moment of happiness in your mind- you’ll smile and be so happy to have your life partner, regardless of how angry you are in your meaningless quarrel.

If you like what you read or value you’ve gotten, please leave a Comment. Or you simply like to pass any good wishes for the marriage. icon smile When Two Become One I’ll definitely appreciate it very much because I read every single Comment posted here personally.

You “Chan” Do It!

Patric Chan
Founder, You Chan Do It
Success Outcome System
www.ycdisuccessoutcome.com

Comments

142 Responses to “When Two Become One”

  1. Roberta March 14, 2008 at 7:08 pm #

    Our most heartfelt congratulations to you both!
    What a handsome groom and beautiful bride! You both look very happy and my wish for you is a lifetime of continued happiness and joy each day!

    Roberta and Ed

  2. Lizie March 14, 2008 at 7:53 pm #

    Congratulations to you both and that your union be a blessed one.Lizie

  3. phuong March 14, 2008 at 8:15 pm #

    It’s glad to hear that you’ve got married. Congratulation Chan, I wish for you guys a happy family and thousands of happiness.

    Phuong

  4. Linda March 14, 2008 at 8:24 pm #

    Congratulations to you both as you share the ups and downs of life. May you have love and laughter in your life together, may you have more joy tears than sad or angry ones. May all the tears forge the bond and bring strength to your union.

  5. Ed Weatherall March 14, 2008 at 8:26 pm #

    Congratulations Patrick….I am very happy for you. Marriage is like the people involved…there are many different levels…and I’m sure you know….at each insurmountable barrier…when things look unworkable…it is always a matter of commitment to what is true…not how you feel. (from a marriage of 26 years…and growing)

  6. chelvy March 14, 2008 at 8:28 pm #

    Hi patric,

    Heartiest congratulations….may joy, health, wealth and happiness be yours forever!

    Love,
    Chelvy

  7. ArtByLetters©®™ March 14, 2008 at 8:47 pm #

    YOU DA MAN PATRICK
    why come back to US
    REALLY ???

  8. Gary March 14, 2008 at 9:34 pm #

    Congrats, My Man! Best wishes for your new life together!

  9. Son Nguyen March 14, 2008 at 9:49 pm #

    Nice pics, beautiful bride, and wonderful wedding.
    Hope you two will have diamond anniversary together.

  10. Vien March 15, 2008 at 3:22 am #

    That’s a good news
    Congratulations to you and Emily
    BEST WISHES AND HAPPY TO YOU!!

  11. semmy March 15, 2008 at 3:45 am #

    congratulation patric!

  12. ved March 15, 2008 at 4:29 am #

    Dear Patric & Emily

    Congratulations to both of you.

    I am sure you both will not be spared to quarrel. But what you can do every morning, just say “O my love! I am innocent, please forgive me. Give me your Tears and take my joys”.

    Best of luck for forever.

    Ved

  13. Hemal Makhija March 15, 2008 at 5:52 am #

    Hey Patric,

    My Heartiest Congratulations to you & your Beautiful Wife !!!

    Sorry for wishing you so late… Wedding pictures are really nice. You both just look “Madly in love couple straight from Heaven.. Just made for each other.. “. As I am not married, so will put it in simple words – “I wish you both a wonderful life together.”. U Both Look Like True Angels..

    Thank you for all the support and the light of wisdom you have shown to me. Thank God for sending such wonderful people like you who wants to help and motivate everyone so they can just be the BEST.

    “Wishes to your luck & mind,
    May your(s) future always shine”

    Regards,
    Hemal Makhija

  14. Naheed March 15, 2008 at 5:53 am #

    Hello Chan!

    Many many good wishes to you both. May have a prosperous present and future!

  15. Vijay Jadwani March 15, 2008 at 7:08 am #

    U 2 LOOK LIKE MADE FOR EACH OTHER-M SURE ITS GOD’S PLAN,& MAY Both of you Live & Love for Long…..
    God Bless You “Dear Mrs.& Mr.Chan”

    “Bon Voyage”

  16. Frankie Teo March 15, 2008 at 7:19 am #

    Congratulations to Mr & Mrs Patric,

    Wishing both of you Everlasting Love & Happiness till Eternity.

    This will be your Greatest JV for the rest of your life. Wishing you Everlasting Success too..

    God Bless..
    Frankie

  17. Sridhar March 15, 2008 at 9:16 am #

    Congrats patric. Wish u happy married life.

    This site is really cool stuff. Keep it going. Iam one of the regular reader of ur articles. It’s been very encouraging.

    Regards,
    Sridhar

  18. Arvind Pendse March 15, 2008 at 11:09 am #

    Big congratulations Patric and best of wishes to both of you. I am sure your insights and understanding of sucess principles in business will be equally useful to you in your own personal life also. May all your dreams be fulfilled and have great time. Bye Arvind

  19. Norma March 15, 2008 at 11:36 am #

    CONGRATS to you and wife.

    I am sure you have broken many many hearts by posting this :-)

    WISHING YOU ALL HAPINESS, UNTIL DEATH DO YOU PART…

    Regards

    Normah

  20. admin March 15, 2008 at 11:37 am #

    Hey guys and gals,

    If you have just posted the wishes, THANK YOU. :-)

    My wife thanks you too.

    As mentioned in my earlier post, I can’t write to everyone personally but I do read each of your name and message. We appreciate your kind wishes.

    Thank you!

    -Patric & Emily

  21. John Howieson March 15, 2008 at 11:40 am #

    Congratulations to both of you Patric! Your bride has one gorgeous dress, and you\\\’re not too bad looking yourself.

    Just remember: while I\\\’m sure your happy together right now, marriage (as you put it) is for life. Be sure to allow for the \\

  22. Huong Tra March 15, 2008 at 4:54 pm #

    Hi Patric
    Just read your email to day, sorry for the belated congratulations, but, yeah, wish you two every happiness in life.
    And I’ve always love your newsletters as well as your blog.
    All the best
    Tra

  23. Victor March 15, 2008 at 8:29 pm #

    Congratulation ! Patric

    Wishing you a happy and lasting marriage !

    Best wishes,
    Victor

  24. Harry March 16, 2008 at 12:12 am #

    Congratulations and best wishes to you both.May you rediscover yourself in each other and find joy throughout your marriage.
    Harry

  25. Danuta March 16, 2008 at 6:48 am #

    All the best to both of you.

  26. MAMADY NJIE March 16, 2008 at 10:03 am #

    HI YOU ARE GREAT-I WISH YOU A HAPPY MARRIAGE
    MAMADY

  27. Raymond Medina from Philippines March 16, 2008 at 10:50 am #

    You surely CHAN do it! Way to go Patric. Best wishes for a wonderful married life ahead. Mabuhay! =)

  28. Marsha Anderson March 16, 2008 at 1:16 pm #

    I am very happy for the both of you becoming as one Looks like such a joyous day.
    I wish you all the best.

    Much Peace!
    Marsha

  29. Lyn March 16, 2008 at 3:33 pm #

    Congratulations Patric and Emily.

    You look lovely, Emily. And both look so happy. May the years ahead hold much happiness.

    Lyn

  30. thai hung tam March 16, 2008 at 11:18 pm #

    COngratulations
    Wish both of you a very new and happy life

  31. Bryan March 16, 2008 at 11:48 pm #

    Hi Patric,

    Thanks for the sharing.

    Thank you.

    Best regards,
    -Bryan

  32. Seree March 17, 2008 at 12:18 am #

    Lately congratulation to you Patric & Emily. (I’m very busy last month)

    Wish you maintain your happiness together as long as your living.

    That’s the point of the family.

    :-)

  33. Sudarmaji March 17, 2008 at 12:27 am #

    Congrats Patric and Emily!

    Soon enough Malaysia will be crowded by smartest Internet Marketers from both of you! :-)

  34. Lou Dalo March 17, 2008 at 12:45 am #

    Patric, Congratulations on your wedding day! You and your lovely bride look very happy. I wish you lost of joy and happiness for all your life.

    Lou

  35. Stefan Tita March 17, 2008 at 12:55 am #

    Be happy ! I wish you ,for both, the best in your life !

  36. Richard March 17, 2008 at 12:59 am #

    Congratulations Patric and Best Wishes to your wife! May you enjoy a lifetime of bliss.

  37. Jim March 17, 2008 at 1:06 am #

    Patric,

    Congratulations my friend! You look great and your wife is beautiful

    Best of luck.

    Jim

  38. Fernanda Estrada March 17, 2008 at 1:11 am #

    Congratulations to you Both

    Now is time to work as a team and share your life
    as partners the good and the not so good moments because doing that will grow your marriage strong

    You surely CHAN do it!

    Fernanda

  39. Margot B March 17, 2008 at 1:20 am #

    Hello Patric,

    Congratulations! You have chosen a very beautiful woman and she appears as kind and gentle as I’m sure she is. I’m sure that you’ll have a wonderful life.

    Thank you for sharing the day with us.

    Margot
    http://margotbworldnews.com

  40. Ryan Kristomuljono March 17, 2008 at 1:46 am #

    Patric,
    Congratulation for your Wedding.

    Happy Wedding!!!

    Cheers,
    Ryan K

  41. mp March 17, 2008 at 1:48 am #

    Congratulations to the newlyweds & wishing you God\’s choicest blessings always!

  42. Miclee March 17, 2008 at 1:48 am #

    Congratulations Patric and Emily .. May God bless u. :)

  43. Sally March 17, 2008 at 2:08 am #

    Congratulations! An Irish blessing:

    May the road rise to meet you.
    May the wind be always at your back.
    May the sun shine warm upon your face,
    May the rains fall soft upon the fields.
    May the light of love guide your paths together.

    May the laughter of children grace the halls of your home.
    May the joy of living for one another trip a smile
    from your lips, A twinkle from your eye.

    And when eternity beckons,
    at the end of a life heaped high with love,
    May the good Lord embrace you
    with the arms that have nurtured you
    the whole length of your joy-filled days.

    May the gracious God hold you both
    in the palm of His hands.
    And may the Spirit of Love
    find a dwelling place in your hearts.

  44. Bob Watt March 17, 2008 at 2:27 am #

    Way to go Patric!
    Congratulations to you both.

    Wish you all the best in your new life together.

  45. Agnes March 17, 2008 at 2:28 am #

    Hi Patrick

    Many,many congratulations to you both on your wedding day! Thank you for sharing with us your very special day and many happy returns to you both.

    Agnes

  46. Chris Shallow March 17, 2008 at 2:50 am #

    Hi Patric,
    I wish you and your wife a long and happy life together. She looks beautiful and you both look very happy together. I also want to thank you for all the useful, practical information that you’ve given us. Have a great honeymoon and a wonderful marriage. Chris, the Marketing Maven, in Prague, Czech Republic.

  47. Adam March 17, 2008 at 4:16 am #

    Congrats Patric!

    Love your post! Came at the right time too.

  48. Anita March 17, 2008 at 4:18 am #

    http://www.keyactions.com

    Cogratulations to you – I hope that you will both be very happy for the years to come.

  49. Mario Wells March 17, 2008 at 4:22 am #

    Hi Patric,

    Your latest post was a beautiful gift. I wish you and your bride all of the best, and I appreciated the lovely pictures you shared with us. At the end of the day, our loving relationships are the best measure of our personal success, and in this post, you have shared your greatest success with us.

    I wish you and your lovely bride nothing but the best,
    Mario Wells ;-)

  50. Jerry March 17, 2008 at 5:09 am #

    Congratulations Patric. You are a very lucky man!

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